Your dating my ex
The shock came the last day I took his stuff to him.
One of my bestfriends for 6 years (who is a huge slut) found out we broke up and tried to hook up with him.
That’s the gift from your ex – the clarity of knowing what you want and need from a relationship! Attracting love, or giving your heart to someone is not easy. I asked her to lunch and the relationship took off. She then told me that there was an ex-boyfriend she still had issues with. We continued on and about three weeks later she told me she was returning to him. It’s extremely complicated because I met him a day after my 17th birthday, he had just gotten out of jail. He started to talk to another girl (he was known for being a man whore before meeting me). This friend is a terrible influence on him and I have never liked him.
But, if you are to have a healthy, loving, fulfilling relationship, you must find a way to let go completely and cleanly, so that your ex is a part of your history, but is no longer a wound in your heart. (he is not a bad guy, he has had a rough life due to his parents adopting him, kicking him out when he was 16, and never being there for him for any reason.) I ended up getting pregnant with his baby and due to complications I lost it. I ended up packing his things up over the next few days and took them to him.
Mine the ex-relationship for clues of what you truly want in a wonderful, fulfilling relationship. I have seen her a couple of times in the past several months. She never called back and has moved onto some one else. One morning we got into a terrible fight and I left to go buy him cigarettes and when I got back he was gone.
Now you have a good idea of what you are looking for in your next partner or what you should put into your current relationship. Moving on to another relationship after such an experience is difficult. Saw her a couple weeks ago and she just brushed our time aside as it never happened. So, we were together 2 years and lived together for a year. He then began to due drugs again (his real parents were drug addicts and alcoholics). He went over to his friends out that recently got divorced.
It has been two months since our break up and I still can’t seem to let go. Everyone tells me he’ll do the same to this other person. I’m angry that I’ve had to drop out the community of folks we were both involved with. I ANGRY at myself for turning my entire life over to him. I did not change my bad habits for her I changed them because I want to be a better person.
Even when you walk away it may still pull at your heart. It is so much easier to let go of someone when it is clear she doesn’t care about you.
It may be even easier to let go of someone who dies, because there is nothing that can be done.
Think about, even list, all of the qualities that you loved about your ex. On the day that it was a year since we lost the baby, he was extremely intoxicated and under the influence. He was extremely upset at himself for doing this and took himself to rehab that same day.
Add to the list the activities the two of you did that made you feel satisfied. He moved into an apartment with two friends that were extremely bad influences. A few months later we ended up working things out and moving in together. But then came the beginning of the summer and things got horrible.